1 – In verses 23-27, Absolom waits 2 years from the time Amnon violated is sister. Why? What is happening in the meantime? Why does Absolom invite the king and his entire court to a festival? Why does David decline?
Why does Absolom want Amnon to attend? What reason does he give? Why does David question this move? Why would the king give his approval? What does he suspect? What precaution does David take?
2 – In verses 28-29, why does Absolom have his servants murder Amnon? Why not do it himself? How does he make the act seem valiant?
Absolom and the rest of David's sons flee from each other. What are they fleeing from? Where do they all go?
3 – In verses 30-33, How does Jonadab know what is going on? Why doesn't he warn his friend, Amnon, of the danger? What is his advice to David?
4 – In verses 34-39, Why does Absolom flee to Geshur? Does he plan to stay there?
5 – How is Absolom's action condemned in scripture? Does Amnon deserve to die?Whose job is it to ensure justice in the land? In the family?
When is it permissible to take revenge? What parallels do you see in David's sins and those of his sons?
6 – Look at Romans 12:19. What does it say about Christians taking revenge? Why do we want to? Why shouldn't we?
Why do we doubt God's justice? Why do we question his promise? Why is this difficult for us? How will we benefit?